Do you have fear of approaching?

It is not advisable to just go and "brake the fear'

Fear of approaching is by far the most common symptom in dating problems. The mind/body must be prepared before the approach so that the society learned response of having a fear is flown over.

A common mistake is to just o and do it. We also made that mistake years ago. It is a society trap: it is macho thing to do to fall proudly.

First layer of society blockage is fear of approaching.

Second layer is to go and approach with fear, without giving you natural methods to resolve the fear. Natural meaning they come from ancient medical practices, not from intellectual masturbation of some 20 century psychiatrist.

If left untreated fear will just ferment and explode later.
You will not be able to remember a single topic to talk about, and similar things will happen.